Before we begin this post, I need to update y'all. Prepare thyself for medical disgustingness and some shameful begging.
I was supposed to be done with surgery by now, but the radiologist screwed up and missed a fistula. I'm gonna leave it to your imagination how we figured it out, but it means I had to have an extra surgery, after the ileostomy was already taken down. Unfortunately, the fix isn't holding, so it's back to the ileostomy next week, another repair and two months of healing the fistula, then we take the bag down again. That's three extra surgeries, instead of the just one we would've done if someone had done his job.
Which brings me to the begging. To pay for this, my mother and I are offering gourmet cupcakes for sale. They're homemade down to the frosting, and we can do individual, or a couple dozen at a time. Price varies by flavour, and we do start discounting after the first half dozen. I'm also offering my artistic services by donation, or you could always be an awesome person and donate without incentive, so when this is all over, there'll be money left for my wedding. : D
Now back to the content.
I want to blog more about lolita, because that's something I have a lot of passion for. So, starting today, I'm going to undertake the Lolita 52 Challenge I found over on FYeah Lolita. Today's topic: 5 pieces that every Lolita wardrobe should have, regardless of style.
Now, I'm not telling anyone how to run their closet, but this is what works for me and I'd recommend to anyone starting out. If you have anything you disagree with, comment (nicely!) below. I'd love to hear opinions!
Let's get to it.
1. A plain white blouse
I don't mean bland, I just mean no prints, no other colors, and no GIANT frills. A nice and simple, button down blouse will go well with a lot of things. I prefer white, since it can span a range of styles and is also easier/cheaper to find. I do have a friend who can't stand white blouses though, and only buys black. That might work better for you, but if you're only into gothy/dark lolita styles. White works with anything.
2. Tights
Rainbow unicorns and neon candy prints are unwelcome. I like to have a solid white pair, and a solid black pair. Whether you choose thigh high, knee high, or regular tights is up to you.
3. A Selection of Headbands
A wide headband makes for a quick and cute hair accessory. Try to keep a variety of the colors you wear most, a few natural colored ones, and, of course, a black one and a white one. In the very least, one black and one white. You can always velcro some coordinating flowers or ribbons to it to match your outfit.
4. Ballet Flats
My favorite pair of shoes is a pair of black velvet ballet flats I picked up for cheap. They're extremely comfortable, but still go with most of my outfits. This makes them the ideal meet-up shoe, since my comm often walks around the mall together.
5. The Petticoat
I'm pretty sure this is on every list, but it can make or break your outfit. It's very, very important to have poofs in your outfits. Almost any skirt can become lolita with the application of a little floof. Petticoats are the best way to achieve the perfect shape, and therefore the look.
Hopefully, this helps someone. :3 Or in the least, someone enjoys reading this.
Stay tuned for the next installment!
White blouses are a great suggestion. I have gotten plenty of great ones from the thrift store. And if anyone doesn't like white remember that white is going to be easier to dye to your desired color.
ReplyDeleteSolid color thighs are another thing that isn't terribly difficult to buy in person. White and black I have seen available at Wal-mart and Target. Though sometimes finding the right size is not easy. Another excellent place to pick them up in those or other colors is a dance store that sells dance and ballet attire. They should have some great size options too, but it has been some time since I visited one of them.
As for headbands I love my hat collection way too much. That and as a kid I always had so much trouble with headbands. They were always too tight and hurt a lot. Possibly because my parents only ever got me those hard plastic ones with the little spikes on the inside. That sounds horrible writing that out. Spikes on the inside. Maybe if I tried something softer I would like it. What kind of headbands do you use and where do you get them?
While I will go on the record saying that not all lolita outfits need a petticoat, I do agree that every wardrobe does.
A nice list. I look forward to seeing your next post for the challenge. Are you going do them all in order?